Feb
13

3 Secrets: How to Find YOUR Best Romantic Partner!

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Single, Married or in a Committed Relationship you deserve an enduring, life-giving partnership, while sharing a profound purpose in being together.

Read this post to the end and I promise you will gain valuable intellectual information that may or may not change your mind about relationship.

Or you can just trust your gut, register for this event and know that you will receive the direct personal experience that is the “true secret” or solution to the seeming riddle of relationship.

Turns out relationship is not really a cosmic riddle or even a mystery. Each of us has within us a ‘master relationship chef’ with the necessary skills for cooking up a sumptuous and delicious intimate relationship. PLUS, each of us has been born into a well stocked relationship kitchen.

The seeming mystery or riddle of relationship is that we have to know what we want in our relationship pie and be willing to develop our relationship skills to cook it just right.

Relationships are challenging and rewarding. They are like mirrors made available for us to learn more about ourselves, AND, the more intimate the relationship – the larger the opportunity for growth is available to us.

Here is the catch – Relationship requires 3 things from you:

1. Clarity & Focus – you need to identify and document what you want to have in your personal relationships so that when you connect with people you will know instantly whether they are a perfect fit for you. Do this and watch the magic happen!

2. Inner Alignment – This is what has been missing. By taking the time to think through what is a perfect fit, you will be developing your relationship skills.

This practice alone helps you to define and document your personal core values, and it is your inner alignment with your core values that is the key to successful relationships.

By investing the time to discover what you want and what is important to you, and aligning with that first, you’ll find the pay-off later.

3. Increased Confidence – confidence is the natural result developing your relationship skills. The Strategic Attraction™ Planning process will help you to imagine and structure, in your consciousness, a clear picture of who you will attract before you actually meet them.

You will know what to look for and what to say in any situation. Plus you will be radiating at such a higher more coherent frequency that the ‘loosers’ won’t come near you.

Give yourself permission to get what YOU need to feel taken care of, loved and free.

From Dinner Date to Soul Mate:
Everything You Need to Attract Your Perfect Mate
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Your Perfect Mate Attraction team,

Couple 3763Jan H. Stringer and Alan Hickman
Founders of PerfectCustomers, Inc.
Attracting Perfect Customers:
The Power of Strategic Synchronicity

P.S. “Becoming conscious simply means finding the courage to continuously reflect, express, notice, and listen.” -Amara Charles

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Feb
02

WABI SABI LOVE Leads To Synchronistic Business Connections…

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Alan was a little overwhelmed and pushing to prepare for his first live  Attracting Your Perfect Mate: From Dinner Date to Soul Mate SOIREE’.

Jan and Alan have been facilitating Attracting Your Perfect Mate tele-classes for years to thousands of people around the world, however, this was the first time Alan was offering a live class in Santa Fe.

In the middle of Alan’s ‘pushing’ to create a time line for the SOIREE’, Jan hands him a one page article titled, “WABI SABI LOVE: Embracing Imperfections in Relationships.”

Alan’s immediate reaction was, “Why is she bothering me with this, I need to stay focused, and what the heck is WABI SABI LOVE anyway?!!!” Trusting his perfect love and business partner, Alan quickly scanned the article and this paragraph caught his eye.

“Spiritual teacher David Deida counsels, “Practicing love often means…surrendering all hold on the familiar act you call ‘me.'” By choosing to turn everyday conflict into compassion, we cultivate a more loving relationship through humor, listening, intimacy and generosity, even when someone is acting out, refusing to listen or shutting down.”

Alan was so impressed with the fact that one of his most valued Spiritual Teachers David Deida was quoted in this article he hi-lighted the paragraph and used it to start his SOIREE’.

After the SOIREE’ Alan realized those words had such an impact on opening hearts in the room that he looked at the article again to see the author was Arielle Ford. On his desk Alan has a list of people he wants to connect with and Arielle Ford is on that list. So he reached for his pencil and wrote a goal in the goals notebook that he keeps next to his mouse pad.

He wrote: “My goal is to connect with Arielle Ford, build relationship and do something together.” He wasn’t sure what action he could take to fulfill on this goal at the time, however, it soon became very clear.

Through a series of synchronicities Alan had an appointment that very week to connect with Marci Shimoff #1 New York Times bestselling author and a world-renowned transformational teacher.

He mentioned to Marci that he had just facilitated the first Attracting Your Perfect Mate: SOIREE‘ to which Marci  responded, “Oh, that sounds wonderful. I have to introduce you to my friend Arielle Ford.”

Now that’s attractive!

After a great conversation with Arielle Ford, we are scheduled to be interviewed on her Big Love – Radio Show which Airs LIVE Every 1st & 3rd Thursday at 1:00 PM PST.

The moral of the story is that as Arielle is supporting us to get the word out about our program, we are moved and inspired to support her in getting the word out about her new book.

You’ll love reading it, and you will enjoy a more passionate, joyful relationship through the stories and the fun, simple exercises that are revealed in the book. Plus you’ll love the feeling in your heart as you begin a renewed dance of love! It is a BEE-ing Shifter. It is a book that will change the relationship experience for many people all over the world.

Click Here to Get Your Copy of Wabi Sabi Love Now!

“Imagine how great it is to feel loved all the time by a friend and partner-during the good, the bad and everything in between.” – from WABI SABI LOVE by Arielle Ford

 

Who is waiting out there for you to call and ask how you can support them?

Wishing You An Attractive Day,

Jan H. Stringer and Alan Hickman
Law of Attraction Experts, Co-founders of Perfect Customers, Inc. Co-Authors of BEE-ing Attraction: What Love Has To Do With Business and Marketing A Guidebook for Developing A Heart-Centered Business & Life and The Authorized BEE-ing Attraction Wizard Training.

And as always, you are invited to share in the conversation by adding your thoughts and comments below.

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Jan
15

Book Review – Become Your Own Matchmaker: 8 Easy Steps for Attracting Your Perfect Mate

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by Patti Stanger

When I first saw the title of this book, my heart sank. You know when you have an idea for a great new product and you procrastinate and then you walk by a store window and there in the window is your idea!

I have been teaching our 4 Step Process for Attracting Your Perfect Mate for over 7 years, and I just started this blog, and I have all these notes for writing a book. I was so jealous when I first saw the title of Patti’s book. I felt like Robin Williams in Good Will Hunting, “He stole my line”.

Then I started watching The Millionaire Matchmaker on Bravo regularly and I read the book. WOW! This is truly an amazing woman and her book is BRILLIANT! The introduction is a must read. It explains everything you see on the TV show. (see short video below) Patti Stanger has been there and done that and lived to share her wisdom in an informative and most entertaining way. For example on page 14 of the introduction she exposes that she went to a “spiritual santero” to cast a spell that would bring “Mat” back to her. The spell works and Mat comes back, however, looking back, Patti realizes she actually wanted control, and that is what she got when Mat showed back up. She got controlled for three years.

That is the Universal Law of Attraction. Each of us is like a radio transmitter sending out our true vibration, and you can know what you are sending out by noticing who you are attracting to listen to your station.

I like to say, “If you want to know who you are BEE-ing, take a look at who you are attracting. If you don’t like what you are attracting, no problem, take out your Perfect Mate Attraction Plan and shift your BEE-ing.

Now that brings up Step Two in Patti’s book. Mirror, Mirror. This chapter is all about “What’s on the Outside DOES Count. Some people may be turned off by this chapter because they think it’s what’s inside that really counts.

I can understand that reaction, however, the conversation is really about mastering balance of both inner and outer beauty. Balance is not having a preference for one over the other and that is a whole other book – my book.

My chapter will be titled Mirror, Mirror, Mirror because there are three different types of relationship mirrors:

  1. The mirror of who you have been
  2. The mirror of where you are now
  3. The mirror of your potential

Step Two of Patti’s book is a great place to start. It provides practical and valuable tips on mastering outer beauty.

Once you have mastered the ‘looking good’ on the outside, one of Patti’s most perfect practical tips is, “No sex until monogamy”, there is a good reason for this tip; oxytocin bonding. Trust me, if you don’t already know what that is, you will want to buy Patti’s book just for that information. It could save you years of suffering and heart ache.

There is also the fact that the more intimate the relationship the larger the opportunity for spiritual growth and healing your separateness from God, and that supports another of Patti’s great tips:

“Finding the right guy is like finding the perfect pair of shoes…. You want to be able to stand and walk in them for blocks and still be comfortable.”

I found a lot of other great tips like the one in Step Four on page 123, “YOU CAN’T CHANGE HIM!” followed by “Every woman thinks sex is the glue, and they are so wrong.” (hint, it is what makes you tick that makes you stick – see Step Two of your Perfect Mate Attraction Plan)

This book will truly prepare you to Become Your Own MATCHMAKER and support you in Attracting Your Perfect Mate.

I unconditionally recommend this book to anyone who is single and dating or wants to be married, or in a committed relationship. AND, I now realize why I am attracted to Patti. She is mirror # 3 for me – “The mirror of my potential” :  )

And as always, you are invited to share in the conversation by adding your thoughts and comments below.

Jan H. Stringer and Alan Hickman are Law of Attraction Experts, Co-founders of Perfect Customers, Inc. AttractingYourPerfectMate.com, Co-Authors BEE-ing Attraction: What Love Has To Do With Business and Marketing A Guidebook for Developing A Heart-Centered Business & Life and BEE A Biz Wiz

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Dec
24

How to Get Some Instant Relief For A Broken Heart

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Do you need a healing from the feeling of loss and grief resulting from a relationship breakup?

If so, I totally and completely understand what you’re going through and what you’re feeling because I’ve been there where you may be now and I promise there is hope.

I have been through relationship breakups that we’re so painful I thought I was going crazy. I have been on the floor in a ‘puddle of tears’ or cried myself to sleep because my grief was so great and I didn’t think it was ever going to end.

However, I lived through it and now it is part of my mission in life to help settle many people into the role of their spiritual selves and heal as quickly as possible so they don’t have to go through what I went through.

One day, in the midst of my suffering, a good friend said what I needed was to “get to know my inner child“, and he gave me a CD to listen to while going to sleep that night. I can’t tell you what a blessing it was for me. This music gave me instant relief and I want to share it with you so you can get some relief, if you need it, right now too.

Shaina Noll is a global leader of transformation. To me she is a True Medicine Woman. Her music is a pure vibration through which support for healing flows instantly, and effortlessly.

However, don’t take my word for it. Watch and listen to this amazing music video for yourself; have a conversation with YOUR inner child and share it with anyone you feel might benefit.

And as always, you are invited to share in the conversation by adding your thoughts and comments below.

Jan H. Stringer and Alan Hickman are Law of Attraction Experts, Co-founders of Perfect Customers, Inc. Co-Authors BEE-ing Attraction: What Love Has To Do With Business and Marketing A Guidebook for Developing A Heart-Centered Business & Life and BEE A Biz Wiz

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Dec
01

Are You Receiving Acknowledgment?

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We are more attractive when we practice receiving acknowledgment

Alan 3553First, remind yourself that these tips are always about playing with ways to bring more love, fun, and joy into your life and your businesses.

So, let’s play with this exercise…

Today, visit or call three people who know you well and let them know you are playing a game to practice receiving acknowledgment. Ask them to assist you in completing this game by telling you something they admire about you.

Your mission is to listen quietly while they tell you how wonderful you are. Just drink it in. When they finish, you will simply say “thank you.”

Nothing more is necessary.

Then, if you so desire, you ask them if you may acknowledge them in the same way so that you may also practice giving acknowledgment.

Leave a comment if you are ready to play.

Now that’s attractive!

QUOTABLE QUOTE

“When you make it a goal to create the perfect relationship between you and your body, you are learning to have a perfect relationship with anyone you are with, including your mother, your friends, your lover, your children, your dog.  When you have the perfect relationship between you and your body, in that moment your half of any relationship outside you is completely fulfilled.  You no longer depend on the success of a relationship from the outside.”Don Miguel Ruiz, “The Mastery of Love”

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Nov
15

Is It LOVE or Is It SEX?

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“Truth cannot be taught but it is quickly recognised by the person ready to discover it.”Barry Long

Barry Long was one of the world’s great spiritual masters. Teaching for over 35 years he was uniquely of the west: down to earth and practical.

His works are published in 11 languages, and he is widely recognised for his original teaching on love which is the first to distinguish love from sex, and has transformed the love lives of many around the world.

In this short video he explains how to tell the difference between love and sex. I hope you find it enlightening.

Share it with your friends and share your ‘enlightenments’  by leaving a comment to enlighten those who follow you.

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Nov
01

Are You Attracting Perfect Relationships?

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We are more attractive when we are attracting more perfect relationships.

Mate E-Guide CoverThe foundation of this tip is “The Golden Rule”…. do unto others as you would have them do unto you.

When you create a BEE-ing Attraction plan to attract to you the type of relationship that is perfect for you, you are actually creating an agreement with yourself.

First, you identify the qualities and characteristics of people who are a perfect fit for you to be in relationship with.

Then, you specify what YOU want these perfect fit relationships to expect of you.

When you clarify what YOU WANT them to expect of you, you begin to ‘heal the separation between you and all past “less than perfect” relationships and you become ever more attractive in the world.

Turns out your perfect mate wants from you what you want to be in the relationship.

Now that’s attractive!

QUOTABLE QUOTE

“Acknowledgement is the only way to keep love alive.”Barry Long

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Oct
15

The First Priority of Attracting Your Perfect Mate

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We are more attractive when we are clear whom we are like

If ‘like attracts like’, then knowing yourself is the first priority of attracting more perfect mate.

Your BEE-ing Attraction™ Plan is a powerful tool to assist you in knowing yourself and allows you to become more clear about the qualities, characteristics, and attributes of your perfect mate, AND what YOU WANT your perfect mate to expect of you.

Without this clarity, the actions you take are based on assumptions.

Conversely, WITH this understanding of yourself, you will be more clear on the ‘attractive’  actions you are to take, to fulfill on what you say you want in a relationship that is a perfect fit for you.

What ‘attractive action’ has become more clear to you today? Leave a comment as your declaration now.

Now that’s attractive!

QUOTABLE QUOTE:

“When I know who I am, I am you,
When I don’t know who I am, I serve you.
When I serve you, I know who I am.” – Hanuman – The Ramayana

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Oct
01

Are You Choosing To Lead A Vibrant Life?

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We are more attractive when we choose to lead vibrant lives

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In an article by Thomas Moore, author of  The Soul of Sex: Cultivating Life As An Act of Love , he muses …”we are distrustful of the life that continues to course through us in spite of our efforts at stability and security. We would prefer that life were not quite so lively.”

He goes on to make the point that the remarkable men and women of our time are those who choose to see life as offering them opportunities to lead vibrant lives.

Today, so many of us find ourselves at a crossroads… life is sending us many opportunities to lead a vibrant life.

And, although we may say we are open to those opportunities, we actually would prefer stability and security rather than to fully embrace the changes those opportunities might bring.

The wonderful aspect of awareness is that we are free to make other choices the minute we notice we are choosing stability and security over leading a vibrant life.

Look into your relationships and identify one area in which you have chosen stability and security over vibrancy. Leave a comment below to share your awareness with others.

Now that’s attractive!

QUOTABLE QUOTE:

“God has given each of us our ‘marching orders’.
Our purpose here on Earth is to find those orders and carry them out.
Those orders acknowledge our special gifts .” –  Soren Kierkegaard

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Sep
15

Who’s Keeping Your Light?

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We are more attractive when we have a lighthouse keeper to tend our light.

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As BEE-ing Attraction Strategists, we have each adopted the practice of imagining ourselves as lighthouses….standing firmly and stately on our own personal shore sending out our light so that those who need us may find us and reach us easily.

Today, take the imagery of the lighthouse to a deeper level by considering the mission of the ‘lighthouse keeper’, whose job it is to ensure that the lighthouse is kept in perfect working order.
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